I believe the case often is that if one with the sort of DNA that makes their bodies gather up fat more easily ends up in a time when they're really depressed, and then might have the habit of making themselves feel better by eating their favorite snack, or so. If they then is depressed for a month for example, by the time they feel better, their body has started to getting used to that eating habit, y'see? And then it's done, by accident. People who end up that way I really feel sad for, cause in my opinion it wasn't really their fault then.
If one, in these days, talks crap to fat people because of their overweight, then yes. I think the person who talks crap is the one with issues.
I myself has a tendency to think a bit badly about some very overweight people (and then I mean very), yes. Yet I do not say it to them, cause they are most likely some great persons within.
I am one with such sort of damaged brain that I think very thin is the prettiest (as in, at the brick of looking anorexic, as some would claim). And I really hate myself for thinking that way. (especially since I'm not 'anorexic thin' myself, which makes me wish I was :P)
I'm really trying to change myself at that part. xD
In the end, there are so many ways a person can end up overweight these days, that I really don't think one should judge them before getting to know the person fully. |