Need big help.... parents and money ok.... I want any suggestion please... I don't feel good right now... I came here because I know you're my family and you can help me.... anyone please... mainly Eric that he's a very wise person... but anybody please
ok..... My personality and my way of acting (almost everything)... changed since my parents got divorced..... and that has only giving problems... my mom and dad got separated because of Money issues..... not only for that... but thats the main reason.....
Right now I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired of this..... of being listening this story about "your dad/mom and I got separated because of.. bla bla bla....".... right now they HATE each other.... it is true... they don't even want to see each other in a picture... and that is obviously affecting me.....
I'm not like... come here to show off my problems.... I always try to fix EVERYTHING by myself... even stuff that is not mine........ I came because I've been feeling this hugh depression about this ****....... that I felt that I needed some help........ I never get in a depression... is just...... When is some big issue.....
ok... the thing is that my dad has to pay a sertain quantity of money (not gonna say how much)... to ME (according to my dad).... my mom always takes that money and she uses it to administrate all my stuff, spends, food, school, etc...... my dad also has to give the half of every single thing my mom buys me (of course she buy me things by herself.... but its rarely the times she does it)....it all has been good until an hour ago..... my dad got this letter from my mom lawler saying some things about an aumount of that payment.... it is $######... but the aumount was like a 75% more than that money that my dad is already paying...........
My dad says that she is always seeking for money... always money and money... selfish, egoist... and all for herself... I'm on a private school... and not with that amount my dad says that the lawler did a mistake (dunno what is it)... and everything has to be done withing that ##### paymernt... not 50% of the stuff additional that he used to give....... the 50% is already in that ###### and she has to administrate it...... there includes the shcool... which is around $100 a month.. a bit more
My mom says that he wants to put me against her....that he never wants to pay that money... he has an economical disorder... since... bla bla...... also she says that he gets into trouble because he has always being bad paying....and all that..... she send him that letter about the amount of the payment and now both are pissing each other off... (and so am I)...
I always say...."..whatever..." "do what you want... I don't care"... and stuff like that.... I never want to think about it....
Now in that sheet appears that if my dad doesnt pay the month money along with the amount... in her credit card.... he goes to jail...... He's gonna do it... but without the 50% thing... ohh I think that was the mistake.... and that will result in another "Sephiroth vs Ultimecia" fight ....
I don't know what to do.. the always wants to explain me... but I don't care... just when it gets to its extremes is that I do something... but.... damn.. this is so annoying....
please help
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