I kinda know how you feel. (Im a love child) my mother and farther split up long ago. I wouldn't let it get to me that they're seperated. And however says:"it's not your fault." I have a single mother and about 2 yrs ago she had another baby. And we're doing just great on our own. We don't let my father bother us. He hasn't been paying the amount that he has to give us. But we don't really need it.
Now if the money he is paying is for you. And your mother is saying that he should be paying more i think you should let her know that he doesnt need to pay so much. It is your money after all. And if she asks you how you feel about it you should let her know right then and there. Don't just say "whatever" and "I don't care." Unless you want to have your father go to jail.
She may think that he's turning you against her but thats not it. Just let them both know that this situation involves you just as much as it involves them |