I know that i am really new here and i shouldn't be doing this..
but i wanted to help because i went trough the same situation..the only difference was that the divorce kinda split me,my sister and brother.
And like
xXBetwixtScarzXx said..
you can help it by saying what you want to be done..just remember that they still love you ^^
And also don't let those lawyers get their finger at it...cause when my parents where mad at each other..a big part of the problem was because of these lawyers that see family's as a opportunity to make money..
just make your mom and dad chill..that things will get better you know..
i hope things get better for you ^^
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