[Cloud07]

What's your guys view on this? Is being homesexua/bisexual more taught or more of nature?

[Kazaf]

kinda hard to say... 50/50 maybe?!

[_Nadie_]

I'm bi myself.
So I think. Both.

Nature) because, I see some hot girl walking down the street. and of course I'm gonna check her out, it's inevitable.

Self taught) I didn't like to start 'liking girls' until I was 14. If it were nature, I would have liked them all my life.

[Cloud07]

Ya, it's just people debate this at times. Sometimes some feel it's nature. Who names, it's just probably another liking like enjoying candy Oh, I read several studies. For some females, they say that almost 80% who think their bi or even try it or even have a phase turn out straight :) I need to find that artile. Think i read that in my wife's cosmo.

[_Nadie_]

well, I've tried it- and I never went back, I'm happy w/ girls as I am with guys. :)

[Cloud07]

Lolz, they say it's more in the mid-20's to lower 30's they change. Reason is for kids, family, stability... not in the experimental phase. I forgot to tag that on.

[Deleted Member]

I believe it is both. Some people are said to be born that way and are that way there whole lives, others are taught by experience or experimenting. Either way, I do think its 50/50

[m4estro69]

Originally Posted by _Nadie_

I'm bi myself.
So I think. Both.

Nature) because, I see some hot girl walking down the street. and of course I'm gonna check her out, it's inevitable.

Self taught) I didn't like to start 'liking girls' until I was 14. If it were nature, I would have liked them all my life.

i've read a lot of studdies on this, and the majority of them say its nature;
you're born "pre-wired"... you cant change it, thats you. and there's nothing wrong with it.

now i dont wanna seem like a jerk, but i'm gonna have to disagree with you Nadie,
did you ever think that you started liking girls at 14, not because you "learned" to then,
but because thats when you hit puberty? and your body couldnt have those feelings before that?...

i dont think anyone can be self-taught to be that way,
bottom line; you're born with it.

[_Nadie_]

Originally Posted by m4estro69

i've read a lot of studdies on this, and the majority of them say its nature;
you're born "pre-wired"... you cant change it, thats you. and there's nothing wrong with it.

now i dont wanna seem like a jerk, but i'm gonna have to disagree with you Nadie,
did you ever think that you started liking girls at 14, not because you "learned" to then,
but because thats when you hit puberty? and your body couldnt have those feelings before that?...

i dont think anyone can be self-taught to be that way,
bottom line; you're born with it.

lol, I started puberty when I was 10.

I mean, Idk- I kissed a girl and I liked it.
and later on I had started going out w/ girls and guys. But now I have a g/f and I'm in love w/ her. =]

so as you were saying.
Born with it?
Is it supposed to be genetic or what?

[Evilynn]

eeeh, there should really be a 'both' choice in this poll, ne :P jk
I think it's both, I guess. This gay guy I knew claimed the first time he ever kissed another guy was in kinder garden. Now that sounds kinda crazy, but if it's true, then...nature xD.
But I mean, if it's so that if you think girls are sexy, pretty, or any of that when you're a girl yourself makes ya bi...then I'm definitely bi :P
50/50 on the question, yeaz.

[m4estro69]

Originally Posted by _Nadie_

lol, I started puberty when I was 10.

I mean, Idk- I kissed a girl and I liked it.
and later on I had started going out w/ girls and guys. But now I have a g/f and I'm in love w/ her. =]

so as you were saying.
Born with it?
Is it supposed to be genetic or what?

is it genetic? i dont know;
i've read a lot of stuff saying it is, and a lot saying it isnt..
i almost think its kinda stupid that ppl waste so much effort, and so much time into researching this.
who cares where it comes from! its how people are, you cant changed it..
just leave it as is.
:angry: hahahaha
note that i'm not some gay person just bashing "gay haters",
lol
i am in fact, straight lol

[_Nadie_]

I never said you were gay.

well, it kinda makes sense now.

[Cloud07]

K added evilynn. Both are in there.