[Cloud07]

Hey that's the point of a forum. Just as long as it's not plain disrespect, ur both fine. Good thing we have people that stimulate the topic.

[m4estro69]

Originally Posted by Cloud07

Hey that's the point of a forum. Just as long as it's not plain disrespect, ur both fine. Good thing we have people that stimulate the topic.

haha thanks

[Squall Leonhart]

I really don't know.....

I think people don't learn or make gays/bisexuals/lesbians.... I think is something you have already with you.... I haven't seen someone who liked girls and then guys.... thats weird...

I honestly don't care the decision you take.... its ok with me

[Cloud07]

Originally Posted by Hemmelight

Hey ppl.

I don't believe that it is hard wired into someone's brain whether they are going to be gay/straight. I understand that most gays think that they were born with it, and I accept that as an honest excuse, but I believe that a person's sexuality is almost always swayed by early life experiences. I'm sorry if I sound like an ***, I have no intention of offending anyone. The thing is, most gays (again, I hate saying it like that, because it sounds so derogatory ) don't realize, or can't recollect, the events that influenced their sexuality subconsciously. I'm going to vote 50/50 because "I was born with it is a popular answer", and I honestly believe my own theory, as well.

Very good tact and respect from your answer. Look forward to more of your serious postings :illustrator:

[Deleted Member]

lol, im sticking with the 50/50 option, voting now. I always hear gays saying they were born with it, they all use it sometime, and what Hemmelight said is good about how they cant remember subconsiously the events which made them consider themself gay/bi.

[Nelly.]

That's so weird. Honestly, I really don't think its by nature. o.0

[yepez]

I would say more nature because you can not be taught on what you feel and like..its impossible when you like something you like when you
ytou odnt no one can change that is it the way you are...

[Topgun]

i believe that no one is born gay, i'm not saying the person makes the choice i just think its how the child is raised.... the parent might not have raised the child correctly and it is gay

[Larkis]

as to my case... am straight! I like gurls. :P

well, I think it's through observance, or other word "taught".

[Jin_Shen]

I think that it is both learned and by nature, but I think that it is more by nature than something that's learned...

[incognitoinnominate]

i really don't know what i am, i prefer not to care either.
.... So i decided it is my policy to stay out of everybody's bed. and not to look.

[Nelly.]

Originally Posted by _Nadie_

Oh no, it's okay.

You don't really know, so you have an excuse.

Being for ppl being gay/ bi- we are what we are. nothing can change us.

So, I'm honestly don't even care anymore.

.... I think I'm now starting to believe Eric when he told me that most girls stop being lesbian before the age of 25.

For the time I 'was'. I guess I did it only for a sexual thrill.
Yes, I liked it... but now - I don't really care and.... I prefer guys alot more now?
But yes, I am willing to go out with girls again.... Only if I really wanted to. :0

yeah.
whatever.

[Jin_Shen]

Originally Posted by _Nadie_

.... I think I'm now starting to believe Eric when he told me that most girls stop being lesbian before the age of 25.

For the time I 'was'. I guess I did it only for a sexual thrill.
Yes, I liked it... but now - I don't really care and.... I prefer guys alot more now?
But yes, I am willing to go out with girls again.... Only if I really wanted to. :0

I didnt know that most stop before 25....
I thought maybe I might of been once, but never experimented, stopped thinking that i might of been, too =P Straight is the way I'm goin'! ;)

[Nelly.]

yeah.
I didn't believe him either but sooner or later my time was to eventually turn back.

I don't mean to sound like a whore or anything.
But.... just like all heterosexual girls, I love having the presence of a guy around me.

However, I'm currently single and not dating... I'm choosing not to... unfortunately.
But yeah, w/e.

The deal is... I like men.
I was born liking guys... I tried not to for a while.... and yeah... It's just in my nature.

[KingdomKeyblader]

This is sorta a side link to this conversation, but to make this make sense, I'm gay. I've lost a few friends who thought that it was a "genetic problem" when I was born. I am still in the admittance stage. I know that there is no problem with me being gay, but should I not mention my being gay to people, even to my friends, for fear of losing them?

(Really wanted answered is the fact that do you think that being gay/lesbian/bi is a genetic problem at birth and/or can be spread to other people.