Help..... - Page 2

Ky Kiske · 01-09-08, 02:29 PM

I was joking about the drugs....
But yes, my head is still spinning. Three years gone in a single sentence.

Iggy Fox · 01-13-08, 05:05 PM

If he cheated on her four times, he's bound to do it again. When he does, she'll come back to you saying how stupid she was to go back to him and begging for your forgiveness... It's up to you whether or not to forgive her and welcome her back...

stabler · 01-13-08, 05:37 PM

I have said this alot lately but Iggy is right. Try and be there for her when he cheats on her again. Remeber she will need a friend long before she needs another boyfriend.

Ky Kiske · 01-15-08, 10:45 AM

Yeah, I know.
But she just needs to GROW UP!!
Jeez, her 13 year old friend is more mature than her.

incognitoinnominate · 01-20-08, 02:59 PM

... Kiske... I feel your pain.... aghhh... long story....
Always accept her back
If you love her then you should... well.. leave her wherever she is happiest. You may love her more than this guy... but........ if she is happy there and he is going to take good care of her then you just have to leave her where she wants to be. At least it is not your fault that she is gone.... that is far worse belive me....
If he is going to treat her badly, or she has somthing wrong in her head, you should tell her that you will always love her no matter what happens... and that she can go to you if anything is wrong. Shouting is a general bad idea.... ..
*angsts......
can't really help you much more... if you got somthing specific i might.... hmmm..

looking at this post again... i think i misinterpreted a previous post...

Ky Kiske · 01-23-08, 02:48 PM

No, you misunderstand. He's abusive.
He hits and insults her. I witnessed the jamming of a pincil in her "sensitive" area!

I decked him for that too!

yepez · 02-03-08, 05:28 PM

Well...
this is soem advice i could give you...
She wants to leave you let her...but when she comes running back to you...dont
open your arms so fast let her know that she lost something she shouldnt have cause if the guy did it once then he will always do it...dont worry she come back running to you...

Ky Kiske · 03-09-08, 03:36 AM

Good news.
We're back together. She said she knew she made a mistake, and that she's here to stay now. I certainly hope she's telling the truth. But I think those tears she cried as she asked me to forgive her were true.

I love Heather, I always have, and I always will. Thanks for the uplifting all!

KingdomKeyblader · 08-17-08, 01:54 PM

COME ON, GET SOME GUTS MAN!!! Just go up to her and tell her why you think that her getting feelings for someone she has had previous experiance with isn't a good thing, epecially if that person cheated on her 4 times!!! Tell her what she means to you and tell the truth, don't go all romeo and juliet on her unless you really feel that way about the two of you being together.

incognitoinnominate · 08-17-08, 02:16 PM

yay... you got back together...

i think i misinterpreted the word "Hurt", not to mean abusive phsyicly. But, a pencil! now i get it, this guy is a... a very bad man.