I heard some funny stories about people being alone..for a long time..
going crazyXD
Like my sisters boyfriend is in college and he was alone...with really nothing..
for about a week..
He had a mental break down..
i know theres a reason for this..something about Humans needing to talk..
but what do u think?
Why do we need attention so much?..
Why Do Are Brains Go Crazy>.>?
Hmmm... Maybe we just need to put our Ideas into words and if we cant we just go insane kinda hard to explain what I was going to say next..... I'll repost later if I can think of how to word what I was going to say
And we need attention because it makes us feel good like people care about us... and if we have no one what else can we feel but miserable?
well... when you start maturing and growing up in many matters....... you need to start socializing more... and talking to more people... emotions is something that only a very reduced number of people can understand..... unknown reason if you ask me
one thing is that you need to talk to people and that way make other people understand how you feel.. the main reason of that, is that unconscientiously you're looking for someone to help you.... and support you...
Normally the term: "Alone" is misused... you're not alone... well... that depends on the subject too.... you might feel alone... but you won't notice that there's lota people thinking on you and careing for you... even if you don't notice.....
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Last edited by Squall Leonhart; 09-03-08 at 12:22 AM..
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I had a friend who was in a holding cell and they moved him in a tiny *** cell like you couldent even stand up and after him being in there fior about a month he went crazy and is till this day in rehab
so I dont know exactly what it is or why it happends but it does
and its bad
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Well it's scary though, kinda...
When I had one, almost, all my friends had been too busy to talk with me at that moment...my mom and sis was with me though, but at work, so for two weeks I were home alone from 7am to 6pm, then when they came home they were busy doing things, so I had around...a few minutes where I was able to talk with either of them before they went to sleep.
I kinda mentally freaked out for some reason. I dunno why. But according to my mom it was even visible on me, considering that little time when I was talking to her my voice, according to her, was trembling and I was talking high pitchedly about how I'd like to join her to work tomorrow but really didn't want to (aka, I was unable to really make my own decisions on what I really wanted xD). And I was for some reason afraid of sleeping, so I slept around 1 hour, more or less, each night, which didn't really make it better. xD
I believe my mom was about to send me to a psychiatrist...but then school started and I kinda calmed down...lol. (I finally got to see people, after all xD)
It's really annoying naa...those mentally wrongoings...I mean, I have angst too, to a degree...and, it causes me to sort of...be worried without really having to be worried about anything, and that makes me sort of worn out from tensing up all the time, and then keep worrying even after that xD Blehhhhh. But my social angst is the most annoying one, I hate my social angst...lol
So I really do not know why some people's brains go "crazy", it just happens, to some. :P
I hope no one's gonna look weirdly at me now after realizing that my brain isn't fully healthy? lol
*Looks At Evilynn*
------------------------->*Evilynn*
You look normal to me...
the closest i ever went to losing my mind..was a 8 hours bus ride...
10pm to 6am...no sleep...bored out of mind..
i blacked out..even though i was fully aware i was blacking out...
then went on a 6 hour hike...by then...i wasn't completely aware of where i was..
i didn't know who i was..and i could care less...
I hate having that feeling...its like you have no control...
In my case, I'm (Oriental) Asian and it has something to do with our culture. Most of us love (or, need) to be "alone" (Tradition), meditating for some thoughts that really bothers us. And know what? It won't get us go "crazy"... it keeps us "mentally well" instead....
I'm most of the time, "alone", watching "a castle in the air" (Daydreaming)...
Yet, haven't felt insane (I don't remember any instance).
But of course, we need to talk, to someone or even to something if we feel we've been so silent for almost all day... (to resist bad breath)
But not necessarily, we need to talk to someone (must be a human). We can talk to "trees", animals (pets) and even to ourselves alone. But if someone darts out from nowhere and caught you doing such a thing, He would definitely think you're crazy. Which maybe awful...
If you're unable to do anything when you're alone, somewhere, try meditating... just think of anything and focus on it... maybe to some small problems, you would eventually find solutions to it...
Coz the Brain, to extreme human understanding, "is an ultimate puzzle" which can't be figured out through any means "humanly". I don't know either... I sometimes meditate about it, but I haven't got any good clue yet.
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... talking seems to help people process their thoughts.
people get lonely for like, 500 reasons...
people go crazy when they have too many thoughts and/or feeligns they can't cope with. fresh air, exercise, sleep, plenty clean water/food, and thinking can help with this.
much of the time all these factors get tied together, and you get sent to a psychiatrist.
*Looks At Evilynn*
------------------------->*Evilynn*
You look normal to me...
Thank you... I guess :P
Yeah one need to talk with someone...not necessary about those feelings or thoughts that bothers you. Those can be kept inside without problems as long as one talk with people and do things often that makes you think about other things. lol.
Except too many people just makes it worse though, for me, but that's another thing. Haha.
[SIZE=2]Well...I'll speak what I know is true and my theories mixed.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=2]We need human companionship because humans are designed to have a purpose in life...to be needed. Without other people to need us, nothing else really needs us, so...we kind of die.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=2]Another thing is like what Jedi said...Humans are incredibly intelligent, and always with the..potential to be more intelligent. Sometimes, we need people to be there to listen to those ideas...and our ideas. That's where the idea of therapists came from... Some people don't have a good friend that they can talk to without feeling the risk of that information being spread through gossip...[/SIZE]
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[SIZE=2]Does that make sense?[/SIZE]
[SIZE=2]I'm having a moment where I feel like I'm outside of my body, while I'm explaining this...[/SIZE]
[SIZE=2]I hope you can understand what I was trying to say.[/SIZE]
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I think i get it..invisible...what your saying..
but to the other comments...mediating...(hope i spelled that right)
would work..if u think about doing it..but....
when its a long hours...long days...u only think of a way to pass the time away..
to make time go faster....so...u..wont be *Bored*..
but i'm still wondering why...Do peoples brain do this..
Why do we need to express..r feelings...
its just feelings..well to me it is..
i only been rly bored and tired..
never alone long enough to....get the feeling of expressing..
or having the feeling to talk.....I never been completely alone..
besides...Which side of the brain control emotions?
if emotions work like that:/..i don't know..i'm not a brain expert>.<
The right part of the brain controls emotions, fantasies, creativity, and...such things.
The left part of the brain controls knowledge, systems, logic, and stuff...
Meaning, right imagine and make up ideas. Left gives you the ability to read, write and all that.
It is different for every person how much left and right work together, or which one of them you're mostly controlled by.
Thanks to my sister, Sarinira, for this information. :P
(( It is said, my sis tells me, that you can see when a person lies: if the person looks to the right when saying something, he/she lies, because that is the side that make things up. Haha, I'm gonna test that one out sometime. :P ))
So I guess, people controlled mostly by the right part of the brain have bigger chances of getting such problems..? Gee. I don't know.
[SIZE=2]Well...I'll speak what I know is true and my theories mixed.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=2]We need human companionship because humans are designed to have a purpose in life...to be needed. Without other people to need us, nothing else really needs us, so...we kind of die.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=2]Another thing is like what Jedi said...Humans are incredibly intelligent, and always with the..potential to be more intelligent. Sometimes, we need people to be there to listen to those ideas...and our ideas. That's where the idea of therapists came from... Some people don't have a good friend that they can talk to without feeling the risk of that information being spread through gossip...[/SIZE]
[SIZE=2]It's also something about the soul mates...just a companion. Something...tangible, that will understand, and will communicate with you, something to make you less self-centered, as they need you to listen to them as well. Something to make you realize that the world is not just you...it's everyone and everything, so much more. And with that comes openness and creativity and curiosity and just..yeah.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=2]Does that make sense?[/SIZE]
[SIZE=2]I'm having a moment where I feel like I'm outside of my body, while I'm explaining this...[/SIZE]
[SIZE=2]I hope you can understand what I was trying to say.[/SIZE]
i get it XD, oh and mother that info is incorrect *looks to the right* XP