Jedi, I'm really sorry to hear about your crush having a boyfriend but I'm glad you're waiting...
And no...really, personally, if I were in your place, I wouldn't ask her out, especially when she's got a boyfriend. Because first of all, she's probably not the kind of girl who would dump a boyfriend she's crazy about for a friend she loves in an unknown manner (trust me, it's confusing) and second of all, if you do get shot down, which I really really hope doesn't happen, she'll always be just a bit wary of you, watching you watching her and trying to determine whether your feelings for her are getting stronger or fading...and then that stress might come between her and her boyfriend...which is bad...so...just, for now, keep holding off, and take a pack of gum with you whenever you're around her, and when you feel an overwhelming urge to ask her out, stick a stick in your mouth and start chewing xD It helps...pretend you're saying it, just silently lol
And valentine...for that comment you made about that girl...I really don't like you. To each their own, but the way you said it was quite derogative to her.
GG, I feel for you, but trust me...everyone...
The right girl will come along for you eventually, it just might take a while to find her. Don't stress out, just keep a look out and an open mind, and you'll find her. Patience is a virtue for a reason.
There is no shame in not having a girlfriend, only in wildly playing the field. Don't do it, seriously. Date the right way.
Oh, and for the other person commenting about snuggling/cuddling? 24/7 hugging, kissing, wanting to be close is too much and very tiring. Take a break every once in a while, and give some space. But too much space is bad too...I dated a guy for four months and he didn't even hold my hand till the second month. Too long, I tell you.
Yeah so...anymore dating questions, feel free to ask. I'm generally known as a quiet person, meaning whatever you tell me goes no farther than me, no worries, I promise. :)
Hope that helped, Jedi, and good luck to all ^^
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